Receiving an invitation with the words ‘formal’ written on it can spark panic! What does a formal dress code entail? Does it mean a floor-length ball gown is mandatory? Is it time to go shopping for a new cocktail dress? Is a leg slit and open back too much?

These are all things to consider when looking for a perfect outfit for a special formal event. The good news is that shopping for a gorgeous gown does not have to be daunting. In fact, it’s time to switch things up and start getting excited about the event and how flawless your look is going to be on the night.

It all starts with knowing what rules to follow and while most guides focus on what to wear for a formal event, we are going to do the opposite and tell you what not to wear.

Casual vs Dressy

It’s always difficult to get the balance of casual vs dressy right. School formals require long elegant gowns so that’s an easy one. Going to the races is always a good reason to invest in a new backless, corset, tulle or lace up cocktail dress. But it’s not so easy to choose an outfit when the event is a night out at the opera or an awards ceremony as it’s difficult to know what level of formal is expected (unless more information is given on the dress code of course).

Showing up to an event dressed too casual can leave you feeling under-dressed and unprepared. Wearing something too dressy can make you feel uncomfortable and out of place. We’ve all been in both situations at one point or another! Getting the balance right is difficult but there are some specific items of clothing to avoid at all costs.

So what makes the list of what not to wear under this section?

• Casual wear (jeans, shorts, t-shirts)
• Tight fitting clothes
• Anything that’s overly short revealing

Everyday Footwear

When it comes to perfecting your look, footwear can literally be the determining factor in making or breaking it. The shoes you choose play a crucial role in bringing your outfit together and determining how comfortable you are on the day/night so there’s a lot to consider.

Do you wear stilettos and sacrifice comfort? What about a sparkly block heel that matches the colour of your gown? Or is a strappy flat sandal more your style?

This is what should not be on your ‘maybe’ list of footwear options for a formal event:

• Flats (unless they’re really dressy and elegant)
• Ankle boots
• Runners/trainers
• Thongs

Clashing Accessories

Over-accessorising can overshadow the elegance and sophistication of an outfit. Big, chunky, bright coloured necklaces with an already busy-looking dress may clash and cause mismatch. Sometimes less is more, especially when it comes to accessories. A pair of basic earrings, a bracelet and a subtle necklace can be just enough to complete an outfit. The key is to choose accessories that will enhance your outfit and give it a well put together finish.

Here’s what you need to avoid:

• Jewellery that’s too flashy
• Large, dangling earrings
• Layered necklaces
• Scarves with loud patterns
• Clutch bags that feature bold colours and distracting designs
• Heavy, bulky bracelets and watches

It All Starts with the Dress

The dress is the most important part of your look so it’s important to get that right and choose a boutique that’s known for supplying the most gorgeous formal dresses. Destiny Chic is the go-to choice for those living in Brisbane and beyond. With bespoke creations and a collection of sexy and elegant formal dresses, you’re sure to find the perfect style for your next event.